
In From Choked to Chosen: A Survivor's Story, Learmie James delivers a gripping, faith-filled testimony of survival, healing, and divine purpose. Told with unflinching honesty and emotional depth, this powerful memoir takes readers on a journey through the dark reality of domestic violence and into the radiant light of redemption.
Learmie shares her story not as a victim, but as a victor - a woman who found the courage to rise from the ashes of abuse and reclaim her identity, her faith, and her future. Once silenced by fear and manipulation, she now speaks boldly for those still trapped in cycles of control, fear, and isolation. Her story begins with subtle red flags that she, like so many others, mistook for love. What started as affection turned into domination, violence, and near death. Through raw and vivid storytelling, Learmie recounts how the man she once loved used psychological, emotional, and physical abuse to strip away her confidence and independence - until one day, she found the strength to escape and begin anew.
Each chapter offers an intimate look at the stages of her journey: the painful recognition of abuse, the breaking point, the silent years that followed, and the miraculous escape that changed everything. Readers walk beside her through fear, courtroom battles, and moments of despair - but also through faith, healing, and restoration. Her transformation is not only emotional and physical but deeply spiritual. She reveals how her relationship with God became the anchor that pulled her from trauma into triumph.
In the later chapters, Learmie reflects on what it means to heal, forgive, and truly live again. She explores how faith, therapy, and community support played vital roles in her recovery and how she learned to love again - beginning with herself. The book culminates in her rediscovery of love through her now fiancé, who helped her see that love should never hurt, silence, or destroy.
From Choked to Chosen is more than a memoir; it is a guide for survivors and their families - a voice of empathy, understanding, and hope. It includes prayers, healing reflections, survivor scriptures, and writing prompts designed to help readers process their own pain and begin their journey toward wholeness. Learmie's story reminds readers that healing is possible, freedom is attainable, and life after trauma can be beautiful.
With every word, Learmie advocates for awareness, faith, and empowerment. Her story is a lifeline for anyone who has ever felt trapped, voiceless, or unworthy of love. It calls out to survivors everywhere: You can rise. You can heal. You can be chosen - not by pain, but by purpose.
Whether read by survivors, support groups, or those seeking to understand the devastating effects of domestic violence, From Choked to Chosen stands as a testament to human resilience, divine grace, and the unbreakable spirit of a woman who refused to be defined by her past.