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Dear Dickhead

Virginie Despentes

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A New Yorker best book of 2024 A Financial Times Best Translated Book of 2024 Shortlisted for the American Literary Translators Association National Translation Award in Prose

Library Science September book club pick
A Vulture most anticipated book
One of The New York Times' 24 works of fiction to read of fall 2024 A Guardian best translated fiction pick A Town & Country must-read fall book

"It's a thrill to hear the characters develop on the page . . . One of the better portrayals of addiction I've encountered in literature, up there with books by Jean Rhys and Leslie Jamison." ―Joumana Khatib, The New York Times Book Review

"Engrossing . . . Full of emotional suspense." ―Pamela Druckerman, Financial Times

The French novel taking the world by storm: an ultracontemporary Dangerous Liaisons about sex, feminism, and addiction.

Dear Dickhead,
I read your post on Insta. You're like a pigeon shitting on my shoulder as you flap past. It's shitty and unpleasant. Waah, waah, waah, I'm a pissy little pantywaist, no one loves me so I whimper like a Chihuahua in the hope someone will notice me. Congratulations: you've got your fifteen minutes of fame! You want proof? I'm writing to you.

Oscar is a B-list novelist in his forties. He used to be an alcoholic and a cokehead, but now he keeps himself busy by ranting on social media. When Rebecca, an actress whose looks he insulted, sends him an angry email, they strike up a combative correspondence--at the very moment that Oscar is accused of sexual harassment by his former publicist. What ensues is a no-holds-barred conversation about life under the patriarchy, and above all about addiction--to drugs, to alcohol, to the internet, to rage.

Virginie Despentes, the celebrated author of King Kong Theory, has written her breakthrough book: a Dangerous Liaisons for our time. We follow Rebecca and Oscar as they develop an unlikely friendship and argue over questions of right and wrong in a city--Paris--where pleasure, excess, and freedom rule the day, or used to. Dear Dickhead is a guns-blazing novel about a culture that makes men and women sick, and about how the search for feeling leaves us addicted to what makes us feel. The result is a provocative and unmissable book from the author hailed by The Guardian as France's "rock and roll Zola."

Book Details

  • Publisher: Farrar, Straus and Giroux
  • Publish Date: Sep 10th, 2024
  • Pages: 304
  • Language: English
  • Edition: undefined - undefined
  • Dimensions: 7.50in - 5.60in - 1.60in - 0.85lb
  • EAN: 9780374611613
  • Categories: LiteraryWorld Literature - France - 21st CenturyFeminist

About the Author

Despentes, Virginie: - Virginie Despentes is a writer and filmmaker. She worked in an independent record store in the early '90s, was a sex worker, and published her first novel, Baise Moi, when she was twenty-three. She adapted the novel for the screen in 2000, codirecting with the porn star Coralie Trinh Thi. Upon release, it became the first film to be banned in France in twenty-eight years. Despentes is the author of more than fifteen other works, including the Vernon Subutex Trilogy, Apocalypse Baby, Bye Bye Blondie, Pretty Things, and the essay collection King Kong Theory.
Wynne, Frank: - Frank Wynne is a writer and award-winning literary translator. Born in Ireland he has lived and worked in Dublin, Paris, Amsterdam, London, Buenos Aires and currently lives in San José, Costa Rica. He has translated more than a dozen major novels, among them the works of Michel Houellebecq, Frédéric Beigbeder, Pierre Mérot and the Ivorian novelist Ahmadou Kourouma. A journalist and broadcaster, he has written for the Sunday Times, the Independent, the Irish Times, Melody Maker, and Time Out.

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Praise for Dear Dickhead:

"The volleys between Oscar and Rebecca power the book . . . It's a thrill to hear the characters develop on the page. Both are sarcastic, vulnerable, lacerating, consistently surprising . . . It's also one of the better portrayals of addiction I've encountered in literature, up there with books by Jean Rhys and Leslie Jamison." ―Joumana Khatib, The New York Times Book Review

"Engrossing . . . [Despentes's] writing remains highly acute. But it has become more sober, patient and full of emotional suspense . . . Frank Wynne delivers a finely tuned translation." ―Pamela Druckerman, Financial Times

"A hilariously profane novel that addresses the complexities of sexual harassment and addiction." ―Dana Spiotta, Vogue

"Zoé [offers] blistering polemics that are ferocious, provocative, and often intensely funny . . . [Her] righteous fury is electric, and Despentes compellingly presents her as a casualty of male privilege . . . In Dear Dickhead, the letter becomes a venue for this kind of ruthless taking stock of one's self through frictive, uncomfortable dialogue with another person . . . Rebecca has a way of whittling complex insights about sex and gender into sentences that have the compressed fury of a two-minute punk song." ―Anahid Nersessian, The New Yorker

"Nuanced and redemptive . . . This is the most optimistic novel of Despentes's career. It also may be the most subversive . . . France's most unforgiving dispenser of fictional vengeance upon male oppressors has maintained her cultural edge by meting out grace instead." ―Marc Weingarten, The Atlantic

"Frank Wynne swings Despentes's French into confidently contemporary English . . . Despentes pulls it off with a brio that's wholly characteristic . . . The energy of Despentes's voice kept me on her side, and rooting for Oscar, Rebecca and Zoé as they navigated their lives with varying degrees of failure, distress and, occasionally, hope." ―Erica Wagner, The Telegraph

"[Full of] lots of highly entertaining Bernhardian rants on the subject of men v. women, generation v. generation, and more." ―John Self, The Guardian

"A bitingly humorous conversation about addiction, lockdown, cancellation, and, ultimately, friendship." --Jasmine Vojdani, Vulture

"A rare beast--a literary work that successfully uses an old-fashioned form to speak refreshingly to the current moment . . . A novel of uncommon depth and poignancy . . . Subversive, disruptive, and infused with a punk sensibility . . . [A] triumph." ―David Vogel, Words Without Borders

"Epic . . . Brash and provocative . . . [A] riveting exploration of feminism and sexism . . . Readers will be awed." Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Rebecca, Oscar, and Zoé come across as real people and their interactions with each other manifestly change them . . . Grounded in real human emotion and experience." Kirkus Reviews

"Despentes's unsparing directness and fluid style are well served by Wynne's translation; nothing is lost . . . Funny, raw, compelling." Library Journal

Praise for the Vernon Subutex trilogy:

"The zeitgeistiest thing I ever read . . . I tore through these books the minute they were published . . . These novels with their depth and detail kick TV's sorry ass." ―Nell Zink, Bustle

"[Despentes] has produced a bona fide magnum opus . . . doing for Paris what Joyce did for Dublin." ―Sam Sacks, The Wall Street Journal

"[Despentes] writes wickedly about people watching their privilege evaporate in real time and reacting with the full range of human ugliness . . . What fun." ―Molly Young, Vulture

"[The] prose is so powerful, and so perfect, that we forget we're even reading. Opening up [Vernon Subutex] is more like stepping inside a thrilling, pulsing party and getting instantly mesmerized by the whirling couple at the center of the crowd." ―Jennifer Croft, The Los Angeles Review of Books

"Masterly . . . [Despentes] resembles, by turns, William Gibson, George Eliot and Michel Houellebecq." Chris Kraus, The Times Literary Supplement

"[An] extraordinary act of creation and destruction, a realistic Paris evoked, transformed, and torn apart." ―Nadja Spiegelman, New York Review of Books

"Virginie Despentes is a true original, a punk-rock George Eliot with a keen taste for the pitiable innards of her characters: no one else has her slyly penetrating eye, her spiky sense of humor, her razor wit that cuts like wire through the accumulated crud of our age's default thought patterns . . A droll, hilarious, insightful record of our unfortunate times." ―Alexandra Kleeman, author of Something New Under the Sun