In 1969, Elisabeth Kübler-Ross first identified the stages of dying in her transformative book On Death and Dying. Decades later, she and David Kessler wrote the classic On Grief and Grieving, introducing the stages of grief with the same transformative pragmatism and compassion. Now, based on hard-earned personal experiences, as well as knowledge and wisdom gained through decades of work with the grieving, Kessler introduces a critical sixth stage: meaning.
Kessler's insight is both professional and intensely personal. His journey with grief began when, as a child, he witnessed a mass shooting at the same time his mother was dying. For most of his life, Kessler taught physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders about end of life, trauma, and grief, as well as leading talks and retreats for those experiencing grief. Despite his knowledge, his life was upended by the sudden death of his twenty-one-year-old son. How does the grief expert handle such a tragic loss? He knew he had to find a way through this unexpected, devastating loss, a way that would honor his son. That, ultimately, was the sixth stage of grief--meaning. In Finding Meaning, Kessler shares the insights, collective wisdom, and powerful tools that will help those experiencing loss.
"Beautiful, tender, and wise" (Katy Butler, author of The Art of Dying Well), Finding Meaning is "an excellent addition to grief literature that helps pave the way for steps toward healing" (School Library Journal).
David's work has been featured in the New York Times, Los Angeles Times, Business Week, and Life Magazine, and on CNN, Fox, NBC, PBS, and CBS. David has served on the Red Cross Aviation Disaster Team and has volunteered for decades as a Los Angeles Police Department Specialist Reserve Officer. He lectures for physicians, nurses, counselors, police, and first responders and leads talks and retreats for those dealing with grief.
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This week's guest on #UnderTheSkin is death and grieving expert David Kessler (@IamDavidKessler), author of 'Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief'. You can listen to the full conversation over on @hearluminary now! https://t.co/vlSdVcyR6O
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Next week: David Kessler will discuss grief in his book “Finding Meaning” in which he builds on the five stages of grief described by Elizabeth Kubler Ross at https://t.co/u0rwJiUlrl
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Just in time for #wintersolstice, 2 books arrived! 1 by the indomitable @ElissaAltman Treyf:My Life As An Unorthodox Outlaw &1 by David Kessler that my grief therapist recommended re: the 6th stage of grief, Finding Meaning. I'm running toward the light like mad y'all 😂🙏🏼 https://t.co/BiBDlxL1m9