When my husband and I were divorcing, the only thing we agreed on was that "he did not like me and I did not like myself." Twenty-four years after saying "I Do," I said "I Don't." That decision propelled my on a spiritual, healing, mystical journey that continues to enrich my life. Healing during and after divorce or any trauma can be very challenging, even when you know it is in the best interest of everyone concerned. I wanted to figure out why I chose this particular person to marry, and how to make a more educated choice in the future. Those thought systems led me on a healing, self-discovery journey. After my ex-husband spoke through a medium and said, "Sign up on the internet for your book," I decided to follow his advice! My wish is that this workbook will be a road map on your journey to empowerment.