"[A] glittering novel . . . [with] a sharpened eye for social detail and a Laurie Colwin-esque ear for dialogue . . . Girls They Write Songs About is a love story about two friends, but it's also something thornier--a narrative about the cycles of enchantment, disenchantment and re-enchantment that make up a life."
--Molly Young, The New York Times

"A novel that spans a decades-long friendship that's so intense the reader feels like an uninvited third, munching popcorn in the corner of an $850-per-month Park Slope one-bedroom . . . So gorgeous, the dialogue so cutting . . . Devastating."
--Alex Beggs, The New York Times Book Review

"[A] prickly-coy novel . . . Bauer is a crackerjack chronicler of the slide into humility which follows ravenous early adulthood."
--The New Yorker

"A fantastically vivid story about feminism and friendship."
--Mary Pols, People

"[A] heady, intimate tale of two young women who meet in the halcyon days of a New York music-magazine career . . . [and then the] coming-of-age glow gives way, inevitably, to the deeper shades and complications of grown adulthood."
--Leah Greenblatt, Entertainment Weekly

"A tender and honest novel about the friendships--and friendship breakups--that shape people just as much as their romantic counterparts."
--Layla Halabian, Nylon

"Razor-sharp . . . With deftness and candor, Bauer tells a moving and thoughtful story of how desire and ambition change over time and how to make sense of the messiness of carving out a path and life of one's own. A smart and beautifully rendered portrait of two women's lives."
--Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

"Gimlet-eyed . . . [Bauer] questions the choices women are forced to make as they age, and the way those decisions unite or divide them. [She] offers no easy answers nor pat conclusions, and her layered tale is all the stronger for it."
--Kristine Huntley, Booklist

"This novel [isn't] about a friendship, but about questions . . . What's the cost of the non-traveled road? Or more simply. . . 'What did we want?' . . . Bauer doesn't give neat answers, but the questions she's asking . . . are good [ones].
--Brendan Buck, Newcity Lit

"This excellent novel--strange and artful, full of texture and feeling--reads like a Sentimental Education for our time; I am so glad that a talented woman has written it."
--Vivian Gornick, author of Unfinished Business

"Finally, a book that stirs up the fire, hilarity, heartache, and power-plant energy of female friendships. Remember how it felt to be young and invincible in New York City? Remember the friends who showed up at your gorgeously gritty apartment bearing new and sparkling worlds? Girls They Write Songs About carries the giddy, smart, shouted exuberance of free young women right up and into the question that haunts us as we grow: How, oh how, did I get here?"
--Samantha Hunt, author of The Unwritten Book

"Humor and feminist passion power Girls They Write Songs About. A riot grrrl anthem of a novel, one that celebrates female longing, accomplishment, and sisterhood while never forgetting the high stakes of our internal struggle to respect ourselves."
--Darcey Steinke, author of Flash Count Diary

"An instant feminist classic--a profound and perfect book about girls raised to believe they can be anything, but who as women learn the truth: every choice requires sacrifice, and freedom isn't free. Carlene Bauer--a Kate Chopin for the twenty-first century--brings a fiercely funny, exquisitely brave, vibratingly intellectual voice to a world of bar flirtations, I-love-this-song enthusiasms, envy, ambition, and regret."
--Ada Calhoun, author of Also a Poet