Here's the thing. I'm married now, so first kisses are a thing of the past. But my teenage niece and her friends are a different story. So, too are a couple of friends who recently divorced and are now back on the dating scene. Listening to their stories reminds me of how much I disliked dating. Not the actual date, but wondering whether the guy was going to try and kiss me. Sometimes I wanted to be kissed. And sometimes, after that first kiss, I never wanted to see my date again. Yep! Some kisses were that bad. It occurred to me, though, that the whole first kiss thing is really tough on guys. I mean, they're expected to make the moves but does anyone ever teach them what to do? Is there a training manual they can refer to? I don't think so. That's why I decided to write 'How To Kiss a Girl For the First Time.' I hope it helps. And here's a big kiss from me to you to give you some inspiration: Jessica James