"Unusual among today's memoirs, this one is upbeat and generous spirited about its author's early life and challenges. . . . The author's compassionate spirit suffuses the text to such a degree that one hopes for a future continuation into his years as a professional historian. A warm, humane coming-of-age memoir. . . ."-- "Kirkus Reviews" (4/15/2022 12:00:00 AM)
"In this fascinating self-portrait and insightful portrait of his times, a prominent queer historian recalls growing up in the 1950s and '60s--a smart, pious, conservative, Catholic boy from a working-class Italian family in the Bronx transforms himself into a radical left, openly gay Columbia University student."--Jonathan Ned Katz, author of "The Daring Life and Dangerous Times of Eve Adams"
"D'Emilio's youthful reminiscences make for a classic work of literature that deserves a wide readership. One hopes this memoir is only the first in a succession." (Starred Review)--David Azzolina "Library Journal" (6/1/2022 12:00:00 AM)
"[D'Emilio's] memoir is a love letter to Manhattan. but also to the Bronx of his childhood, to the schools that educated and occasionally hindered him, to the family members who nourished him--even when they no longer understood him--so he would someday find his life's work. . . . Based on the many pleasures offered by this book, I hope he decides to write the sequel."--Daniel A. Burr "Gay and Lesbian Review" (9/1/2022 12:00:00 AM)
"D'Emilio, who has been an eminent historian of the American gay man's experience and struggle during his lifetime, has turned his searching eye inward and now gives us a different kind of history--one that's pegged to his own life, loves and learnings. Every page is fork-tender with emotion, and to be honest, in my mind's eye, I imagined him going back to a huge file of every sweet or difficult or thoughtful observation he'd ever excised from one of his academic books and sewing them together with hindsight for this volume."--S. Bear Bergman "Xtra!" (10/27/2022 12:00:00 AM)
"As D'Emilio applies his skills as an acclaimed social and cultural historian to his own youth, Memories of a Gay Catholic Boyhood offers us a caring and thoughtful window into a time of enormous change in American society and the Catholic Church. His account is warm and gracious; he is quick to acknowledge his own limitations while acknowledging the crucial role of his friends and family in shaping and loving the gay Catholic man he became."--Brian Linnane "America" (6/16/2023 12:00:00 AM)