
Testing expectations of motherhood and faith, this haunting and breathtakingly-honest depiction of the transformation of a family through the mystery of gender questioning and identity is a dual story of awakening: of the heart of a mother towards her transgendered child, and of the child's awakening to his, her, their fluidity of gender.
FOR YEARS, HER SON KEPT A SECRET. A BIG SECRET.
The bombshell, delivered shortly after he left for college, left author C.A. Gibbs questioning everything. What was real? Was she being a good parent? Through fear, anxiety, faith, loss, and grief, Gibbs shares the remarkable experiences triggered by the discovery that her adult child isn't-and maybe hasn't ever been-the person she thought.
In The Picture Wall: One Woman's Story of Being His Her Their Mother, Gibbs lifts the curtain on life with a child who lives outside societal norms and expectations.
From her earliest desire of wanting nothing more than to be a mother, to facing her own life-and-death medical diagnosis before it was safe to get pregnant, to the self-doubt and push-back from others when she expressed concern over her toddler's development, Gibbs finally comes to terms with the fact that the picture-perfect life displayed in her scrapbooks and on her family picture wall wasn't reality.
At least it wasn't the full picture.
The Picture Wall: One Woman's Story of Being His Her Their Mother takes us on an intimate and emotional journey toward healing as Gibbs comes to terms with raising an autistic child, parenting a transgender adult child, telling family a child is transgender, letting go as children grow up to live authentic lives on their own terms, and embracing being empty nesters.
"Haunting and breathtaking. A must read."
-Yvonne Caputo, Flying With Dad: A Daughter, A Father, & the Hidden Gifts in His WWII Stories
"A story of deep commitment and great courage."
-Gwyn Teatro, In the Thick of It: Mastering the Art of Leading from the Middle
"A tale of acceptance, celebration and loving our children just the way they are."
-Sue Robins, Bird's Eye View: Stories of a Life Lived in Health Care
"Written with courage and honesty."
-Judith Frizlen, Unpacking Guilt: A Mother's Journey to Freedom
"A dual story of awakening of the heart of a mother towards her transgendered child and of the child's awakening to his, her, their fluidity of gender. Raw, honest, and hopeful in the deepest sense of the heart."
-Susy Sanders, PhD, Clinical Psychologist, Morning Bridge Center, Maine