"Insightful in its reflections, keen readers will find much to contemplate." --Booklist

"A message in a bottle to the tristes and isolatos and lonelyhearts of the world. [Deming] is trying to write himself out of isolation, and in doing so, he is offering readers the gift of connection...Brave and intelligent." --The American Scholar

". . . inspired meditations . . . The lucid prose is matched by the depth of insight . . . Profound and often achingly beautiful, this makes for great company." --Publishers Weekly

"This is an uplifting book that provides a blueprint on how to manage such a common yet challenging emotion, and Deming's personal experiences adds necessary heft to the text. The author charts a navigable course for embracing one of the most painful and universal human emotions." --Kirkus Reviews

"It is easy to make loneliness poignant and moving now. What is striking about Richard Deming's remarkable book is that he has managed to make loneliness interesting, something that we might now begin to have real conversations about. The powerful and devastating personal experiences recounted here, woven into the lives of figures like Walter Benjamin, Melanie Klein, and Zora Neale Hurston, among others, make This Exquisite Loneliness an essential contemporary book."--Adam Phillips, author of On Getting Better

"Loneliness is everywhere these days. But this book will chase some of it away, and maybe replace it with connection." - Patton Oswalt, Award-winning comedian, writer, actor

"Beyond biography and cultural study, This Exquisite Loneliness is a book that gives rich voice to both the agony and occasional joy of a unique facet of the human experience. Insightful in its reflections, keen readers will find much to contemplate." -- Booklist

"This Exquisite Loneliness is a beautifully written, informative, intimate, and insightful meditation about working with loneliness, a central and intrinsic feature of human existence, and not through it." -- Psychology Today

"This Exquisite Loneliness is a transformative book for understanding this moment of collective isolation. Through his sharp-edged personal reflections, Deming interrogates powerfully and openly his own sense of aloneness as he weaves his discoveries with fellow writers, artists, and thinkers from Walter Benjamin to Zora Neale Hurston. What can be a harrowing condition of disconnection becomes an opportunity for blazing revelations, an invitation to bring our interior and exterior landscapes together through acts of courage, large and small, that define our humanity. Through Deming's brave and searing prose, This Exquisite Loneliness builds an eloquent case for staying with the discomfort as darkness becomes the passageway toward illumination."--Terry Tempest Williams, author of The Moon Is Behind Us

"In This Exquisite Loneliness, Richard Deming explores his life and major influences, and finds a vocabulary for aestheticizing loneliness, ultimately finding beauty, meaning, and transcendence in the inherent solitude of the human experience." - Gregory Crewdson, artist

"Richard Deming's mesmerizing exploration of loneliness in its full range of forms--from torment to solace to inspiration, as manifested in the lives of variously brilliant people--is so nuanced, so insightful, so gorgeously written that I found myself underlining passages on nearly every page. It's unlike any other book I've read, which is high praise indeed." - Michael Cunningham, Pulitzer-Prize winning author of The Hours