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"The most exceptional book about grief I've ever read.... As unsparing as they come, but also defiantly flooded with light.... Extraordinary." --Cheryl Strayed, The New York Times Book Review
In 2004, at a beach resort on the coast of Sri Lanka, Sonali Deraniyagala and her family--parents, husband, sons--were swept away by a tsunami. Only Sonali survived to tell their tale. This is her account of the nearly incomprehensible event and its aftermath.
Anjali Enjeti is a former attorney, organizer, and journalist.
I never stopped thinking about Sonali Deraniyagala's book Wave, which I read soon after it was published in 2013. Didion's books about loss & grief may be more popular but no one captures grief like Deraniyagala. I keep hoping we'll see another book by her (about anything).
"The book felt so forthright that it somehow didn’t feel like she was “writing.” My friend, whom I made read the memoir, too, described it as a “pilgrim’s prayer.”"
Writer, explorer, and PhD candidate. @SyracuseU fiction MFA. Former firefighter.
I’m reading WAVE by Sonali Deraniyagala and bc I Google everything I just found out that she and Fiona Shaw married in their fifties. It’s made my day. https://t.co/ryR5SCtYOY
"Unforgettable. . . . The most exceptional book about grief I've ever read. . . . [Deraniyagala] has fearlessly delivered on memoir's greatest promise: to tell it like it is, no matter the cost. . . . As unsparing as they come, but also defiantly flooded with light. . . . Extraordinary."
--Cheryl Strayed, The New York Times Book Review
"Unforgettable . . . It is a miracle Deraniyagala lived. The fact that she could write such a memoir, bringing those she loved to life so completely that they breathe on the page, is itself a miracle."
--Vanity Fair
"Out of unimaginable loss comes an unimaginably powerful book. . . . I urge you to read Wave. You will not be the same person after you've finished."
--Will Schwalbe
"Vivid. . . . What emerges from this wizardry most clearly is, of course, Deraniyagala herself--carrying within her present life another gorgeously remembered one."
--San Francisco Chronicle
"An amazing, beautiful book."
--Joan Didion
"Stories of grief, like stories of love, are of permanent literary interest when done well. . . . Greatness reverberates from [Deraniyagala's] simple and supple prose."
--The New York Times
"Turns revealing into art as powerful as a planetary vibration."
--The Plain Dealer
"Both heartbreaking and astonishingly beautiful."
--New York Post
"[Deraniyagala's family] spring from these pages with an exuberance and dimensionality that lifts Wave from memoir into some virtual realm of documentation."
--The Boston Globe
"[A] quiet memoir of torturous loss. . . . Deraniyagala tours memories of her young family's history with artistry."
--The New Yorker
"A haunting chronicle of love and horrifying loss. . . . Memory, sorrow, and undying love."
--Abraham Verghese
"Radiant. . . . The extremity of Deraniyagala's story seizes the attention, but it's the beauty of how she expresses it that makes it indelible. . . . [She is] a writer of such extraordinary gifts. . . . Wave is a small, slender book, but it is enormous on the inside."
--Salon
"Chillingly real. . . . Wave captures the elusive, shape-shifting nature of grief."
--Newsday
"Beautiful and ravaging . . . faultless prose."
--Daily Herald
"Immeasurably potent. . . . Relentless in its explication of grief, this massively courageous, tenaciously unsentimental chronicle of unthinkable loss and incremental recovery explodes--and then expands--our notion of what love really means."
--More magazine