Books That Have Soothed My Soul

Brené Brown’s work on shame and vulnerability has changed my life. Her words have guided me as a therapist and as a human being, helping me let go of impossible expectations and embrace who I truly am.

This book gave me the validation I needed as a gay man. The fact that Colby Martin—a straight man—approaches this topic with such compassion and integrity makes it all the more meaningful.

This book helped me make sense of the evangelical culture I grew up in and why I feel so disconnected from it now. It’s an honest look at the history of “my people” and how we got here.

I’ve never felt so seen by a book. Sarah McCammon’s story parallels mine in so many ways—it’s like she put my experiences into words.

This was the first assigned book I actually loved. It taught me about empathy in a way that has shaped how I write and how I approach my work as a counselor.

This is the queer love story I wish I’d had as a teenager. It’s tender, joyous, and a reminder that everyone deserves to be seen and loved for who they are.

This is hands down my favorite fantasy book. It’s whimsical and heartfelt, but it’s also a powerful story about love, acceptance, and belonging.