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Hello, Cruel World: 101+ Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws
"A don't-hurt guide for anyone who's been tempted to give in to despair."--Time Out New York
"You'll want to keep extra copies of this one on the shelf to give away to friends in need." --Bitch magazine
Now updated and with new material Hello, Cruel World features a catalog of 121 alternatives to suicide that range from the playful (moisturize!), to the irreverent (shatter some family values), to the controversial, fun, challenging and easy. Encouraging readers to unleash their hearts' harmless desires, the book has only one directive: "Don't be mean." It is this guiding principle that brings the reader on a self-validating journey and toward a resounding decision to embrace life.
Using graphics and checklists, and with great humor and gutsiness, Kate Bornstein dares readers to re-envision the gender system as we know it. She offers stories and insights that are tenderly intimate and unapologetically edgy. Hello, Cruel World also includes:
- an Introduction by Sara Quin of Tegan and Sara
- The Hello Cruel Scale of Feelings
- an Index of Alternatives with safety and effectiveness scales
Suicide rates among LGBTQ+ teens are much higher than for their cis peers; with love and humor and confession and insight, Bornstein hopes to keep every freak out there alive. She is a radical role model, an affectionate best friend, and a guiding mentor all in one. This one-of-a-kind guide to staying alive is a much-needed, sometimes unorthodox approach to life for those who want to stay on the edge, and alive.
Finalist, LGBT Nonfiction Lambda Literary Award, 2009 Honor Book, Stonewall Children's and Young Adult Literature Award, 2009
Book Details
- Publisher: Triangle Square
- Publish Date: Apr 29th, 2025
- Pages: 288
- Language: English
- Edition: undefined - undefined
- Dimensions: 6.90in - 5.00in - 1.00in - 0.50lb
- EAN: 9781644214435
- Recommended age: 13-17
- Categories: • LGBTQ+ - General• Social Topics - Suicide
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What people are saying
I'm an author, actor, performance artist, and advocate for teens, freaks & other outlaws. Pronoun? Any will do, and I’ve done so many
@disabldsunshine Hiya. I wrote a book called “Hello, Cruel World: 101 alternatives to suicide for teens, freaks, and other outlaws.” It even works when you’re not suicidal. My editor and I took great care to be disability inclusive. Wishing you well ❤️
Praise for this book
"I realize Kate Bornstein is trying to save teenagers--the beautiful weirdos on whom the fate of our future rests--but if her book gets into the wrong hands, she might inadvertently save a whole lot of adults too." --San Francisco Chronicle
"Writer-activist-professional outcast Kate Bornstein takes an empathetic approach." --Carol Queen, co-editor of PoMoSexuals
What people are saying
I'm an author, actor, performance artist, and advocate for teens, freaks & other outlaws. Pronoun? Any will do, and I’ve done so many
@disabldsunshine Hiya. I wrote a book called “Hello, Cruel World: 101 alternatives to suicide for teens, freaks, and other outlaws.” It even works when you’re not suicidal. My editor and I took great care to be disability inclusive. Wishing you well ❤️