"Ms. Nayeri's personal account is sure to be a powerful statement in the current political climate." --Rashida Tlaib, U.S. Congressional Representative, 13th District of Michigan

"Nayeri, the author of two novels including Refuge, uses her first work of nonfiction to remind readers of the pain and horrors refugees face before and long after their settlement. It is timely, as President Trump has made barring refugees from the United States a priority, and the Western world is plagued with a surge in nativism. Nayeri combines her own experience with those of refugees she meets as an adult, telling their stories with tenderness and reverence." --Nazila Fathi, The New York Times Book Review

"Nayeri weaves her empowering personal story with those of the 'feared swarms, ' asylum-seekers in Greece and the Netherlands. Her family's escape from Isfahan to Oklahoma, which involved waiting in Dubai and Italy, is wildly fascinating, and even by today's standards it remains miraculous . . . Using energetic prose, Nayeri is an excellent conduit for these heart-rending stories, eschewing judgment and employing care in threading the stories in with her own . . . This is a memoir laced with stimulus and plenty of heart at a time when the latter has grown elusive." --Angela Ajayi, Star-Tribune (Minneapolis)

"A work of astonishing, insistent importance . . . A book full of revelatory truths, moments where we are plunged deeply and painfully into the quotidian experience of the refugee." --Alex Preston, The Observer

"A thoughtful investigation combining a memoir of [Nayeri's] former life--which includes a dramatic departure from her home country and two years of adjustment before arrival and 'acceptance' in the US--and a collection of case studies interrogating what it means to have been, or to be, a refugee. Nayeri robustly challenges the perceived obligation on the displaced person to revoke or tone down their former identity; to assimilate, to be a 'good investment' for any country that has admitted them. It is a provocative work . . . This wide-ranging, reasoned book is no polemic: its observations are self-reflective, contemplative and significant." --Catherine Taylor, Financial Times

"Through its searching depictions of how trauma, memory, and identity all resist the false binaries that immigration officials and a suspicious public rely upon, The Ungrateful Refugee dismantles the prejudices and self-deceptions that con Westerners into believing they can distinguish deserving from undeserving immigrants . . . Nayeri walks away from this contract, choosing instead to look with a critical eye at those who judged her deserving while demonizing so many others. In doing so, she gives a warning to all immigrants seduced by the lure of model-minority status: just because someone judges you worthy, it doesn't mean they have good judgment." --Leila Mansouri, The Believer

"The Ungrateful Refugee argues that ungratefulness is one of many appropriate responses to the circumstances in which refugees find themselves, that there are as many reactions as there are people who wear the label of refugee at some point in their life. And it is a critique of a system that asks refugees and other immigrants to perform themselves in order to fit a narrow set of definitions in order to be granted the very least any country or person can offer--safety . . . The Ungrateful Refugee is the work of an author at the top of her game." --Jessica Goudeau, Guernica

"A gallery of powerful portraits of the experiences of those fleeing persecution and war, and those who help and support them. This is not comfortable reading, but it is compelling. In moving, poetic prose Nayeri unravels this difficult subject, never dodging troubling questions." --Lynnda Wardle, Glasgow Review of Books

"This book's combination of personal narrative and collective refugee story is compelling, necessary, and deeply thought and felt. Writing with truth and beauty, Nayeri reckons with her own past as a refugee . . . This valuable account of refugee lives will grip readers' attention." --Booklist (starred review)

"With inventive, powerful prose, Nayeri demonstrates what should be obvious: that refugees give up everything in their native lands only when absolutely necessary--if they remain, they may face poverty, physical torture, or even death . . . A unique, deeply thought-out refugee saga perfect for our moment." --Kirkus Reviews (starred review)