"It's early days, but this big-hearted novel about a family with a transgender child is in the lead for the most sensitively and sincerely told story of 2017...Frankel's portrayal of even the most openhearted parents' doubts and fears around a child's gender identity elevates this novel."
--People, "Book of the Week"

"Deeply satisfying...An intimate family story...Day-to-day parenting dilemmas are where Frankel shines."
--The New York Times Book Review

"Brave, complicated, occasionally horrifying and frequently very funny...Frankel is a first-rate storyteller."
--Seattle Times

"Frankel has tackled this controversial topic in a warm, funny and honest way and one that will undoubtedly spark thought and conversation."
--The Fort Worth Star-Telegram

"Frankel's writing is witty and wise, and her characters are reminiscent of those in family capers such as the film The Royal Tenenbaums or Commonwealth, Ann Patchett's recent novel about an eclectic brood...This is a fascinating, gut-wrenching, timely and enjoyable read--and a must for your next book-club discussion."
--Edge

"This Is How It Always Is isn't only a novel about the challenges of life with an atypical child. It's a story about the challenges of parenting and love, period...This beautiful story is deeply personal, a heart-rending glimpse of an author writing her way to understanding."
--BookPage

"A novel of great empathy and compassion that transcends politics...This is a family that you will take into your heart and--like all friends--you will welcome the changes that they bring to your life."
--The Seattle Review of Books

"Sly and charming...Comes at the perfect time...This Is How It Always Is explores the travails of a modern family, where challenges about a child's gender are the same as any other struggles of growing up."
--Shelf Awareness

"A bold, honest, heartbreaking story about the choices parents make, and how life goes on, but not always according to plan. This must-read novel... is the perfect pick for book clubs."
--PopSugar

"One of the most timely and big-hearted family stories I have read in a long time...This is a beautiful novel about the unexpected curve balls of parent and sibling relationships, and the limitless boundaries of family love."
--Bustle

"This wise and often funny novel is a compassionate lesson in discovering and welcoming what makes each of us unique."
--Redbook

"Illuminatingly nuanced and heartfelt, This Is How It Always Is is the story of how a family evolves--and grows--together."
--Refinery29

"Sharp and surprising. This is a wonderfully contradictory story--heartwarming and generous, yet written with a wry sensibility."
--Publishers Weekly ("Pick of the Week," starred review)

"Well-plotted, well-researched, and unflaggingly interesting...As thought-provoking a domestic novel as we have seen this year."
--Kirkus (starred review)

"I was lucky enough to receive an advance reading copy of this very special book about a family with a secret. It made me laugh, it made me cry, it made me think. Preorder your copy now."
--Liane Moriarty, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Truly Madly Guilty

"Laurie Frankel writes with more heart than anyone I can think of...With emotional acuity, admirable bravery, utter compassion, and complete understanding, she's created a family attempting to forge a path through one of life's most mystifying challenges: how to define what it is that makes your child who he or she is: unique, beloved, and whole. This is a novel everyone should read. It's brilliant. It's bold. And it's time."
--Elizabeth George, #1 New York Times bestselling author of A Banquet of Consequences

"In This is How It Always Is, Laurie Frankel spins a beguiling tale of a sprawling, loving, ever-changing, unconventional, and yet completely typical modern family as they make their way though a world with no easy answers and no magic solutions. How does Frankel pull off such a story? With great humor and candor. With a powerful narrative voice, and a forthrightness so compelling, we are drawn into the family circle to laugh and cry with them, and to ponder issues great and small. An intimate, wonderfully moving novel that is especially relevant in today's world."
--Garth Stein, New York Times bestselling author of A Sudden Light and The Art of Racing in the Rain

"This is a perfect book club book, a book that should be read in schools, and one of my favorite reads of the year. A challenging subject handled with honesty, grace, humor, dignity, and most of all, love."
--Jamie Ford, New York Times bestselling author of Hotel on the Corner of Bitter and Sweet

"A lively and fascinating story of a thoroughly modern family and the giant, multifaceted love that binds them. This Is How It Always Is sparkles with wit and wisdom."
--Maria Semple, New York Times bestselling author of Where'd You Go, Bernadette

"Laurie Frankel has written one of those very rare, special novels that examines the way we live--in our homes, in our families, in our bodies--with an astonishing balance of humor, complexity, and above all, kindness. This Is How It Always Is teaches us to look beyond the traditional binary oppositions of boy vs. girl, right vs. wrong, real vs. make-believe, and to find courage and beauty in the in-between."
--Ruth Ozeki, New York Times bestselling author of A Tale for the Time Being