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A heart-warming and hilarious family memoir of growing up as one of eleven siblings raised by a single dad in Northern Ireland at the end of the Troubles.
Séamas O'Reilly's mother died when he was five, leaving him, his ten (!) brothers and sisters, and their beloved father in their sprawling bungalow in rural Derry. It was the 1990s; the Troubles were a background rumble, but Séamas was more preoccupied with dinosaurs, Star Wars, and the actual location of heaven than the political climate.
An instant bestseller in Ireland, Did Ye Hear Mammy Died? is a book about a family of loud, argumentative, musical, sarcastic, grief-stricken siblings, shepherded into adulthood by a man whose foibles and reticence were matched only by his love for his children and his determination that they would flourish.
"In this joyous, wildly unconventional memoir, Séamas O'Reilly tells the story of losing his mother as a child and growing up with ten siblings in Northern Ireland during the final years of the Troubles as a raucous comedy, a grand caper that is absolutely bursting with life."―Patrick Radden Keefe, NYT bestselling author of Say Nothing and Empire of Pain One of NPR's Best Books of the Year
Patrick Radden Keefe is an author and journalist.
Happy US-pub day to @shockproofbeats whose memoir of growing up in Derry with a single father & 10 siblings is moving and very funny- one of those books I want to press into people's hands because I know they'll thank me & I can bask in the reflected glory
Was: writer, librarian / Now: social justice comms / Always: huge nerd. I know I was born & I know that I'll die; the in-between is mine. Emily, not Em. She/her
I just re-read Did Ye Hear Mammy Died? on audio, read by author Séamas O'Reilly @shockproofbeats himself, and friends, if only for the joy of hearing Séamas doing his dad calling him with random details "for the book," you owe it to yourselves to do the same. https://t.co/avkdXokz9A
"It's hard to imagine a memoir about an author's dead mother could elicit actual belly laughs, but somehow, O'Reilly makes it happen... what ultimately emerges in O'Reilly's recollections is never macabre. Instead, it is a tribute to the parents who raised him--his mother, by the legacy she left behind, and his father, in his sometimes strange and yet seemingly deliberate ways of caring for each of his children through their grief. Did Ye Hear Mammy Died? expertly combines heartfelt sentiment with a dry Irish wit that will leave readers questioning if the tears on their cheeks come from joy or sadness or dark humor--or all of the above."
--Kerry McHugh, Shelf Awareness"Séamas O'Reilly's rousing grief memoir shuns sentimentality in favor of gallows humor. Its title comes from a favorite family tale: when O'Reilly was five, his mother died, leaving behind 11 (!) children. At the wake in their house in Northern Ireland, O'Reilly went around the crowd "like a chipper little maître'd, with the cheerful enquiry: 'Did ye hear Mammy died?'" I laughed out loud reading this memoir - O'Reilly's style and mining of family farce recall David Sedaris, but with a Derry bent."
--NPR, Best Books of the Year